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Okay, bear with me and be honest. Stop reading for a few minutes and think about this question: would you rather be surrounded by frumpy looking "eee, what was she(he) thinking, wearing that?" people, or people who care what they look like? Times up. I'm trusting that you really thought about this, because if you didn't, you can't jump down my throat for the following opinion piece. I just came back from shopping. FIrst, in a large grocery store and then in Canadian TIre. Oh, my Lord. Fat chicks with too tight bras under close-fitting summer tops - I don't know about the front (I don't usually stare there) but from behind, you could see the seams of the bra AND the flesh spilling out around it. Doesn't she know she can go to Sears and have a saleswoman help her get a bra that looks good under her clothes? Mind you,I'm not raging about fat people here - we've all seen overweight types who look just find in their clothes, right? Just don't put on a 36 bra when you need a 40. Case two: women my age (I'm almost 65 and in fairly good shape; meaning, I can tuck my shirt in my pants and if I 'suck it in' I look like I have a figure) Anyway, women my age wearing short shorts when they're not on the beach! Here I'm probably going to get you really mad at me - no one over 50 years old should wear anything shorter than their knee caps except in their own backyard, at the pool, or at the beach. There. Even if you are 55 and have thin legs, it doesn't look right. Thin legs actually look just as bad as the chunky stems, skinny legs look like you're starving yourself or sick. In conclusion - mature women (that's you or you wouldn't be reading this, right?) shouldn't dress like they are 25. Get over it, ladies. We've been there, done that. (In fact I got kicked out of a pub in 1970 for wearing what the owner thought were too short shorts. Honestly!) Not only that - in my opinion, we all look a hellavalot better in capris or slacks, properly fitted bras, and other decent clothes. Please...don't be so hard on other people's eyes. Look in the mirror before you go out, willl ya? signed: Notdeadyet |